Helping Your Loved One Eat

Changing Needs

Throughout our lives, we often associate food with nurturing.

..A new mother may feel that she expresses her affection by feeding her baby the best food available.

..Family gatherings are often centered around large meals.

..Chicken soup is thought to soothe and heal an ill child.

As a person approaches death, a natural slowing down of the body's physical and mental systems occurs.

Because the needs of the body are changing, the need for food and fluids naturally decreases as the person nears the end of life.

It is not unusual for the sense of taste to diminish and/or the person to begin to have difficulty swallowing.

As the body's system slows, the need for caloric intake also diminishes. This is a normal process at the end of life.

Food that has fueled healing in the past may now only bring about discomfort and possibly even pain.

To maintain good health, one needs to eat the right balance of foods from each of the four food groups (vegetable/fruit, meat/fish, cereal/potatoes) and drink plenty of fluids. Your body needs a combination of nutrients - proteins, carbohydrates, fats, vitamins, minerals, and fiber - to satisfy all of its requirements. If your loved one's food intake does not or cannot include everything he/she needs, check with his/her physician to see if food supplements might help.

Precautions

Preparation

Procedure

  1. Place food within his/her reach.
  2. Open any containers or packages. Butter bread and cut up food if your loved one needs help. If not restricted by diet, add additional seasonings as requested.
  3. Describe what is on the tray if your loved one cannot see and ask what order he/she prefers to eat things.
  4. Encourage your loved one to hold any finger foods.
  5. To offer liquids to a person who cannot sit upright, raise and support the head with one hand while holding the cup with the other and allow him/her to drink.
  6. To offer liquids by straw, stir the liquid with the straw to distribute heat evenly. Place the straw in your loved one's mouth so that he/she can suck and swallow as desired. (If he/she sucks too much liquid, you may need to pinch off the straw and pull it away to allow swallowing.)
  7. Try to avoid having your loved one finish too much liquid first so that he/she is not too ful to eat the solids.
  8. Feed slowly, naming each food as you offer it.
  9. Fill a spoon only 2/3 full. Touch the spoon to your loved one's lower lip and then to his/her tongue to let him know where the food is and when to open his mouth.
  10. Allow time between bites for chewing and swallowing.
  11. Offer a liquid and then a few bites of food, followed by a liquid again.
  12. Wipe your loved one's mouth with a napkin or towel as needed.
  13. Move the food away when he/she if finished eating.
  14. Provide mouth care after the meal.

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